“God Made Dirt, Dirt Don’t Hurt”

“God made dirt, dirt don’t hurt.”

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Interesting phrase, right? My mom said this a few years ago, and it honestly can have a much deeper meaning than dealing with literal dirt. As I put this quote into context, I have realized how much it relates to life itself.

Sure, there is the literally meaning of “dirt don’t hurt”, because God made dirt, and getting a little messy, muddy, or dirty is not going be the end of the world. Kids and adults are always getting dirty throughout the day, and dirt just washes away. No big deal, right? Embrace nature. Play in the mud puddles. Work in the barn. Jump in the lake.

However, in my opinion, there is a much deeper meaning that can be applied to “God made dirt, dirt don’t hurt”.

Life brings struggles. Life brings hard times, stress, and chaos. You can call these things “dirt”. Sometimes, there can be so much “dirt” in your life, you just feel like you are going to fall apart, or you just want to give up. I believe God brings these hard times into our lives for a reason. How are we ever suppose to grow or learn without “dirt” in our lives? God gives us “dirt”, and dirt doesn’t hurt. It can be used to help us grow. When there is “dirt” in our lives, we need to face it straight on and know that we will come through it stronger than we were before, with God’s help.

I know this for a fact, based on my own “dirt” experiences I have had in my life. Even though there have been many hard times in my own life, I know that God will always help me through, if I ask, and I will become stronger than I was before. I have faith that God knows what He is doing and knows what I need in my life. I accept challenges and look to God for help. My faith has become stronger from “dirt” in my life.

So, embrace change. Embrace the chaos. Embrace the dirt. Embrace the mess. God made dirt, and dirt, don’t hurt.

How to Get Up for Work in the Morning (for non-morning people)

For me, getting up early in the morning for work is honestly the worst part of the day. It’s freezing, the sun isn’t out, and all you can manage to do is sigh as you struggle to get out of bed; especially when you are a night owl at heart. I could stay up all night long and be perfectly fine, but when I have to force myself out of bed at 5:30 AM, it’s a different story.

As some people say, “the struggle is real”, when I have to physically and mentally use every effort in my body to literally pull myself out of bed. When your’e not a morning person, especially for me, this is a look into how my morning goes:

(P.S. This is meant to be funny, but true)

  1. Make sure you take a shower the night before, because there is no way on earth you will wake up to take one in the morning.
  2. Snooze through 5 different alarms.
  3. Finally open your eyes and then lay in bed for another 10 minutes.
  4. Groan and moan as you (quite literally) roll out of bed.
  5. Take the next 20 minutes just getting dressed and listening to music and then realizing you have like 10 minutes to do everything else.
  6. Search the kitchen pantry for something good to take for lunch, and then not decide on anything and chuck random snacks in your lunchbox.
  7. In 2 minutes, rush and do your face and brush your teeth like your in a Nascar race.
  8. Grab your stuff while running out the door because you’ll be late, even though your alarms go off an hour or more before you have to leave.
  9. Accept the fact that every morning you will be rushing around because you hate mornings.
  10. Repeat over and over every morning and not teach yourself to change it.

 

The Hardest Day of My Life

“God gives His hardest battles to His strongest soldiers.”

Have you ever had one of those draining, long, intense days that you never expected to happen and you remember every detail? That is what happened to me, in the fall of 2010. I was only fourteen years old, and my dad owned a motorcycle. My dad and I were part of the CMA, which stands for Christian Motorcycle Association. One day, we went to an event with our group, and little did we know that soon it would turn into an all-day event. Through this hard time of my life, I drew closer to God and I learned to not take life for granted.

Just a few weeks prior to this event, my grandfather died from lung cancer. However, my little brother, Noah, was born just a couple days after his death. My whole family was still recovering and we were all emotionally unstable still, at that point. We decided to go on a trip with our CMA group to a cool tourist area and just spend the day there. My dad and I had to wake up at three in the morning to meet our group at a church parking lot. We all waited until everyone got there, and then we headed out on our two-hour journey. Since I was sitting on the back of a motorcycle with a small seat, while it was cold and raining for a non-stop two hours, it made me feel very sore. However, of course, it was worth it.

In the morning and afternoon, the day went great. First, we went out to eat breakfast. Afterward, we arrived at our destination and our group then joined an even larger group of motorcyclists, and all together, we went to a steakhouse for lunch. While we were there, we ate food, listened to music, fellowshipped, and just relaxed and had a good time. I remember being one of the only kids there, being a little, tiny, shy girl. I remember talking to all the “scary, buff, tall, covered in leather” men and their wives. After lunch, our smaller group separated from the larger group, and we went on our way. We decided that we couldn’t go home without ice cream first, so we drove to an ice cream shop and we all went in and ordered. We all chatted and enjoyed our ice cream for a few minutes. We then jumped back on the motorcycles and started to head home.

This is where my story takes a turn for the worst. Just about fifteen minutes into driving home, our group arrived at a sharply curved road. Now, motorcycles drive in a lane staggered back and forth, and my dad and I were near the back of the line. The man who was in the front of the line decided to speed around the curve. He was going so fast, that he was in the opposite lane while going around the bend, and did not see an oncoming jeep. The woman who was driving the jeep tried to swerve and pull over, but this road did not have much shoulder. The motorcycle brushed the front headlight of the jeep, but because he was going so fast, it was enough force to spin him completely around several times and flip him upside down. His helmet was thrown off of him, the motorcycle was in a million pieces, and he was face down on the road. He was killed instantly. His entire spinal cord snapped on impact.

Now, when my dad and I came around the bend, since we were near the end of the line, all we saw was pieces scattered across the road, with him lying here. I instantly just heard my dad panic, and we had to come to a sudden stop, as we pulled over to the shoulder, along with the rest of the group. From there, everything was a giant blur. We called 911, and three police, a fire truck and two ambulances showed up. They had to close the road. While those things were happening, some of us were trying to comfort the woman who was driving the jeep. She felt it was her fault that this had happened, but we reassured her we did not think it was her fault, and we got to witness to her and help her in the process.

Being a 13-year-old girl, who had just gone through losing her grandpa, I was an emotional wreck the whole time. Watching everything happen reminded me of my grandpa, and all I could do was sit there and cry. At this point of time, I was also very tired and cold. Once the police and emergency teams cleaned up the wreckage, we finally were able to leave. However, that was still not the end of it.

After taking a half an hour breather, we all had to meet up again in a little town nearby. From there, our motorcycle group got a police escort to his house, having to tell the horrible news to his wife and family. The man who passed away was such a nice gentleman. He was not even that old, probably in his 50’s. He had a wife and a few kids, and was a born again Christian and attended church. When we arrived at his house, we all parked in his driveway and stayed there, while the police and his closest friends went to the door. As we stood there in sorrow watching, I had to witness and hear the one thing no human ever wants to hear. That horror of a scream and crying people make when they lose someone they love. I had to witness that, and I lost it again myself. It was the longest fifteen minutes I’ve ever experienced.

Once there was nothing else my dad and I could help with, we finally got to start heading home. At this point, it was probably around eight at night, and we still had to drive two hours home. I was so scared and cold and tired at that point, my dad drove very slowly all the way home, and we finally made it back after a super long day. After we walked in the door and explained everything to my mom, I made some hot chocolate, and just sat on the couch for a while in shock, and finally fell asleep. The next few days, we saw news articles and newspaper articles about the accident, and the obituary. My dad got calls, and I believe that he went to the funeral a few days later, and that is what concluded the longest day of my life.

After all these events had taken place, it really made me think about how fast life really is, and how important it is to keep your relationship with Jesus Christ strong. I’ve been saved since I was six, but these events in that year of my life were what really challenged me, and made me want to get baptized the next year. They were horrible events to happen and to have to be a part of then, but now I look back at them and I am grateful for them because they really taught me and helped me grow. This is one of my life changing stories that I still tell over and over again because it has impacted me in so many ways. Do not ever take life for granted.

My Autumn Favorites

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Autumn has always been my favorite season. Seeing as how I live where we get all four seasons, I always loved fall. I do not know whether it’s the crisp air, falling leaves, Halloween, or my birthday, but there’s just something about it. I love being able to wear sweatpants and hoodies, and enjoy many outdoor activities. It is also hunting season, and I am a country girl at heart. I love football Sunday’s, and rainy days with movies and hot chocolate.

This is my Top 10 list of my favorite things of Autumn:

  1. Hunting season
  2. Leaf piles
  3. Halloween
  4. The temperature
  5. Pumpkin patches
  6. Hot Chocolate
  7. Hayrides
  8. Corn mazes
  9. Autumn colors
  10. Cozy socks

(I feel as if I could write more, and these are not in a specific order.)

What are your favorite things of Autumn?